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The Art of Prostate Massage

I opened my inbox to this message this week: “I did it!!! That was fuuuuun lol he was jello. Told him not to fall in love and we had a good laugh. Ty (thank you) for the advice <3” Yay!  I love feedback, especially when I have really, truly helped ...

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Let’s Talk About STIs: The Follow-Up

**Note:  This is my experience in my area of the country.  I can’t speak for any other areas.  Please check with your local offices.** “I would like to schedule for STI testing.” “Um..” “Because I like to get tested every 6 months.” “Oh, ok.  We do a swab that tests ...

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I’m the Female Rat Who Will Tug on Your Sleeve

“Yep.  Definitely.  I totally agree!”  I nodded my head as I read.  This is my “problem”. I recently read an article entitled When Women Pursue Sex, Even Men Don’t Get It.   I immediately wanted to give my editorial.   The article talks about how women desire sex for pleasure but ...

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It’s Time to Talk About STIs

It’s time to talk about sexually transmitted infections (STIs).  It’s going to come up.  You are dating now.  The question is, how will you handle it? He sent me an message on a dating site, looking for a regular partner for sex, nothing else.  At this time in my dating life, ...

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Date Etiquette

It’s the day after a date.  Will he text me?  Will I text him?  That is what runs through my head, if in fact I enjoyed my date.  And if I enjoyed my date, he knows.  Or I hope he knows.  I’m fairly forward and now days have zero issue ...

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Friends with Benefits

I’m a sex geek.  (A sex geek is someone who geeks out on sex.  I read about it.  I talk about it.  I talk about it very clinically and academically.  It is generally a very non sexy thing for me to talk about, or at least it can be.)  One ...

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Sexual Shame – A Question from a Reader

Occasionally I get questions from readers, or in this case, a request for a topic.  So here we go… “I think you need to do a blog explaining that a woman doesn’t need to apologize for squirting… That’s kinda my goal when I am with them…” Squirting, also known as ...

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Is First Date Sex Ok?

My motto:  Have sex on the first date, you may not like each other by the second. Seriously.  If the chemistry is right, why not? Now, this is assuming you want to have sex.  This is also assuming that you don’t have personal issues with casual sex.  It is ok ...

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Chemistry, it was Easier in High School

I was an A student.  I didn’t study too hard in high school.  I didn’t graduate top of my class but I was in the top 10% if I remember correctly.  High school came very easy to me, including Chemistry. Enter dating.  I haven’t dated since I was 17.  Thankfully, ...

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You Can’t Say No without Confidence

I was 17.  I was strong, independent, a goody two-shoes.  I did well in sports and school.  I was straight laced.  I didn’t smoke or drink.  I always had a boyfriend.  I actually got a kick out of telling boys no.  I had confidence! My future husband was 19.  He ...

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