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Guest Post: How do you Stay Hard During Sex?

The following is a guest post from my boyfriend, P.  As a sex and relationship geek, I was so happy when he shared this with me and that he was a yes to letting me share it here on my blog.  So introducing P and his first direct contribution to ...

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“The Circle”

I have a circle.  I have an amazingly sexy circle of wonderful friends.  I don’t say that to brag as much as to show appreciation.  I also say that because I want to explain how the circle works.  I feel like new people that come into some communities can get ...

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The Sexiest List I’ve Ever Read

“Here…is my list:  Things that turn me on…”  This wasn’t a grocery list… there were no bread, eggs, butter.  Rather, there was a lot of “I like it when you…”  Mmmm… all the yumminess. Back in November I read a post that inspired me:  What I Like and Don’t Like. ...

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Find an Enthusiastic Partner and Everyone Wins

We made plans. We had been together three times over the last three weeks. Each was more fun than the last. He is over a decade younger. He sports hair as cool as his tech-y job. He’s in the kink world. I’ve classified him as a switch (although now I ...

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My Sexual Revolution, A Never Ending Story

I was at a sex geek meet-up I co-facilitate recently and a friend mentioned her sexual revolution.  I’ve been wanting that to be a topic for discussion at our monthly meet-ups but it hasn’t made it’s way to the winning topic slot.  (We vote on our topics.) Then in the ...

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New Stages Bring New Challenges

Learning who I am without someone was one stage.   Learning who I am with someone is a new stage. I spent the year after my split from my husband of 18 years learning a lot about who I am without him.  I sat in his shadow for 2 decades. ...

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‘Vanilla’ is Yummy!

“Do you still enjoy vanilla sex?”  That was the question posed as I chatted up some new friends at a poly party.   We had met before and he is a reader of this blog.  He knows.  Or he at least knows a snippet of my kinky life. “Do I ...

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Does the Knife Sing to You?

“Does it sing to you?”  That was the question posed to my friend as we were shopping a garage sale and he asked about the history behind a knife he was holding. The knife’s owner, a mutual friend and an energy healer, explained that you should never buy a knife ...

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Balance

I exhale with a smile of satisfaction on my face.  I’m very zen.  I feel so at peace with life right now, and it isn’t just because of the amazing ashiatsu massage I had this morning.  (Seriously, the best massage I’ve ever had.  If you are in the southwest Michigan ...

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The Art of Prostate Massage

I opened my inbox to this message this week: “I did it!!! That was fuuuuun lol he was jello. Told him not to fall in love and we had a good laugh. Ty (thank you) for the advice <3” Yay!  I love feedback, especially when I have really, truly helped ...

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