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Matt R’s Dating Tip: The Initial Message When Dating Online

Matt’s back with another dating tip!  If you missed his last tip, click here.   So it has been about a week since the last dating tip, which means it is time to start on the next one! I thought it might be good to start at the beginning this ...

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How to Approach Me on an Online Dating Site

“When meeting people online, leave it to a young foreign man to actually make a great first contact…” -Me A friend then posed this question to me: ” For those of us who don’t initiate contact with, “Hey UR sexy. Want to meet?” or “Sup?” yet still get next to ...

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I Remember When I Was Vanilla

I have a vanilla date tonight.  Vanilla meaning someone from outside the kink world.  It reminds me of when I was the vanilla date.  🙂 I loaded Tinder on to my phone for the first time.  It was a day in early September, fairly early in the day, if I ...

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Online Dating Don’ts – And How to Scare Me Away in One Easy Step

So, you have found me on any number of social media or dating sites.  You think you want to get to know me better.  You send an introductory message.  I immediately run the other direction.  Occasionally, I may not run right away, but give you subtle suggestions to change your message. ...

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Online Dating, My Love/Hate Relationship

It went something like this: Fairly attractive man contacts me. I engage him in conversation for long enough (a good portion of my morning) that he suggest we meet. I agree. He starts to back pedal. I see the red flag and ask a few questions, the first being, “Is ...

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Styles of Ethical Non-Monogamy

“Yep’ I’m still Hangin’ Around.” This was a message I received on OK Cupid this morning.  I responded, “And I’m still not buying what you’re selling. :)” This cutie proposed a situation a while back that wasn’t to my liking.  He asked if I would consider joining what I will call ...

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I Met a Real Life BBW Lover

One day last week I was answering OK Cupid messages and came across a message from an attractive man, but sadly not local.  But because we are a great match, like 97%, and he wrote in complete sentences, I engaged him in an interesting conversation for a chunk of my afternoon. ...

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