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Relationship Styles… I’m such a hybrid of monogamy and non monogamy

I got to see one of my loverships today and it got me thinking on my drive back home about how I relationship.  I’m like my own special little mix of monogamy and nonmonogamy.  I have spent three years figuring out what feels like me.  I didn’t go into my ...

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Asking for What I Want – Michelle 3.1

Michelle 3.1… yeah, that’s a thing.  The latest update to my software:  Asking for What I Want. About a month ago I was on a training call for my work as a Cuddlist and we were discussing why sometimes our male clients think it acceptable to ask for sex when ...

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Coming to Terms with what Monogamy Isn’t

I’ve been saying for the more than 2 years since my divorce, and maybe more like 2 decades, “I’m not very good at monogamy.” I was married for 18 years. I cheated physically during a chunk of my mid 20s and I cheated emotionally continuously. Or at least that is ...

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A Letter to My Love

To my Love and those watching around us, As a woman of official cougar status, I wasn’t looking for the relationship escalator when I started dating younger men. (The relationship escalator is the social expectation that if a relationship is serious it should follow the standard path of moving in ...

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The Power of Self Talk, Battling Feelings of Jealousy

Driving home last night, I brought up polyamory to my partner that sat in the passenger seat.  He is new to poly.  So I’m always asking how the concept is sitting with him, how he’s feeling about our relationship, etc.  While I only have one additional partner, he’s kind of ...

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