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The Compliment I Can’t Take

I heard it multiple times last night, “You are an intelligent woman…” in various forms. I can hear that I’m pretty. I can hear that I’m open. I can hear that I’m fun. I can’t hear that I’m smart. My partner, P, and I were at a friend’s house last ...

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I Don’t Want to Talk About the Weather…

I like talking on the phone.  I know most like texting better.  Not me.  When I get on the phone, it can be for hours.  But I don’t want to talk about the weather.  I want to learn something, either about you or about me, preferably we will both learn ...

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Sexual Shame – A Question from a Reader

Occasionally I get questions from readers, or in this case, a request for a topic.  So here we go… “I think you need to do a blog explaining that a woman doesn’t need to apologize for squirting… That’s kinda my goal when I am with them…” Squirting, also known as ...

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How to Conquer Rejection

I recently shared my story of my first rejection.  Here is where the story picks up… It had been a few weeks since my first rejection.  I got a lovely message from a very attractive gentleman on my usual dating site.  We spent the week having long conversations on the ...

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Rejection

About a month ago I met a handsome young man for a drink on a Wednesday afternoon. I don’t date 20 somethings but this gentleman I made an exception for. He was military and had a lot of life experience I couldn’t compete with. He was sexually open and our ...

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The Healing Power of Nakedness and Sisterhood

I stood in the mirror this morning, applying warm coconut oil to my silky, freshly shaved skin.  I love the feel of my own skin.  I looked at my body in the mirror, admiring what I saw.  I’m not a size 16 plus sized (photo shopped) swim suit model but ...

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Fun with Ropes – How I Learn About Myself

**If you have watched my videos, here on this site, you know I have been exploring the world of BDSM since September.  You can also watch them here.** We were acquaintances.  She’s always been very welcoming to me.  We have met at many social events but have never really gotten ...

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I Met a Real Life BBW Lover

One day last week I was answering OK Cupid messages and came across a message from an attractive man, but sadly not local.  But because we are a great match, like 97%, and he wrote in complete sentences, I engaged him in an interesting conversation for a chunk of my afternoon. ...

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You Can’t Say No without Confidence

I was 17.  I was strong, independent, a goody two-shoes.  I did well in sports and school.  I was straight laced.  I didn’t smoke or drink.  I always had a boyfriend.  I actually got a kick out of telling boys no.  I had confidence! My future husband was 19.  He ...

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Body Confidence, Take 2

Today I wrote about body confidence, but I don’t think I did it enough justice. So I want a second stab at it. I have had body issues since I can remember. In high school I remember having dreams about trimming out my inner thighs with scissors. In my dreams ...

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