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When I Knew I had to be Poly

Life is preparing to change again. The relationship with a sort of expiration date for surely knows he’s going to have to move. For his sake, sooner rather than later is best for him.  We’ve grown incredibly close since deciding to just go for it and enjoy the time we have. ...

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Expanding My BDSM Skills

I sat at dinner with a group of kink friends a few weeks ago.  We were discussing roles like dominant, submissive, etc. and I expressed my confusion as to “what am I” to the small group gathered at a local restaurant.   I’ve been weighing this question for well over ...

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Find an Enthusiastic Partner and Everyone Wins

We made plans. We had been together three times over the last three weeks. Each was more fun than the last. He is over a decade younger. He sports hair as cool as his tech-y job. He’s in the kink world. I’ve classified him as a switch (although now I ...

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I Want to be Taken Care of — GASP!

“What?!  Michelle is this independent woman.  She swore she didn’t want to be taken care of!  Didn’t she?”  I’m assuming something similar is going through your head as you read the title of this post. I was married for 18 years, in that relationship for 21 years.  In that relationship ...

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Kink – One Year In

Announcement:  I’ve been in the kink/bdsm community for one whole year!  *cue the band*  I have learned so much about kink/bdsm but more importantly I learned so much about myself. I entered the community to learn what bdsm was (the sex geek in me) but also how to communicate better, ...

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After I Went Down the Rabbit Hole of Loverships

Last week I wrote about “Lovership”, the idea that I connect with some friends in a more intimate way, which for me includes a lot of touching, and how we can appear as lovers, we are so close.   The writing of that post took me way too long.  Thankfully ...

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‘Vanilla’ is Yummy!

“Do you still enjoy vanilla sex?”  That was the question posed as I chatted up some new friends at a poly party.   We had met before and he is a reader of this blog.  He knows.  Or he at least knows a snippet of my kinky life. “Do I ...

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The End

I had the honor of helping say goodbye to the local BDSM dungeon this weekend.  It closed its door this weekend after many years of being open to the local kink community, providing a space for classes and a safe place to explore many kinks in the BDSM realm. I ...

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He Made Me Cry (The S&M Follow-Up)

*I’m sharing the following with the encouragement of a close friend.  I had prepared this post but wasn’t sure I wanted to share it.  We agreed that with the popularity of 50 Shades, that I could share it.  I’m hoping that at least one person will read it and take something ...

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S&M

*I’m sharing the following (and it’s follow up) with the encouragement of a close friend.  I had prepared this post but wasn’t sure I wanted to share it.  We agreed that with the popularity of 50 Shades, that I could share it.  I’m hoping that at least one person will ...

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