Dating and Relationships

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Does it Still Have an Expiration Date?

“I’d follow you anywhere… if it was a different time.” Remember the relationship with the expiration date? The job search has the potential to take him anywhere in this country and even a few Canadian possibilities. We are getting down the the final weeks. He has the first offer. Decisions ...

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Long Term Relationships – Hitting the One Year Mark

We were walking hand in hand, late Saturday night, looking for ice cream in downtown Grand Rapids.  I looked up at him and beamed, “I’m really proud of you.  I’m really proud of us.”   It’s been a year since I met my partner K.  I was fairly new to ...

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“The Circle”

I have a circle.  I have an amazingly sexy circle of wonderful friends.  I don’t say that to brag as much as to show appreciation.  I also say that because I want to explain how the circle works.  I feel like new people that come into some communities can get ...

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Jealousy, I Thought My Struggle was Real. Maybe I was just Confused?

Would you, the reader, be willing to do me a favor?  Go read this post by TheFerrett entitled Fuck Your Jealousy.  Try Mine.  Did you read it?  Seriously, go read it!  It’s important to what I’m about to talk about. My previous marriage ended within a few months after we ...

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May is Masturbation Month… Consider Mutual Masturbation too

So May is Masturbation Month.  Yep.  May.  Now, please don’t think that means you can only masturbate in May.  Please do it as often as the urge hits.  It’s good for you.  And this month you can find a myriad of articles telling you all the benefits.  That’s why I’m ...

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When I Knew I had to be Poly

Life is preparing to change again. The relationship with a sort of expiration date for surely knows he’s going to have to move. For his sake, sooner rather than later is best for him.  We’ve grown incredibly close since deciding to just go for it and enjoy the time we have. ...

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Using How You Friend to Determine How You Poly?

Browsing my favorite fetish website, I came across a comment from a kinky friend on a post about polyamory.  I want to share it, with her permission. “If you look at dating in the same way you look at friending (that is, the verb I just made up for being ...

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Why I want to Hear the Unfiltered Truth, Even when it Hurts

After I shared my story of my partner discovering he is on the asexual spectrum, where I mention how it’s hard to hear about him having sex with other people, I had friends ask why I just didn’t ask him not to talk about it with me.  In one conversation ...

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The Sexiest List I’ve Ever Read

“Here…is my list:  Things that turn me on…”  This wasn’t a grocery list… there were no bread, eggs, butter.  Rather, there was a lot of “I like it when you…”  Mmmm… all the yumminess. Back in November I read a post that inspired me:  What I Like and Don’t Like. ...

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How an Expiration Date Gave me Permission to Love

Recently I read this post: I’m Dating Someone who will Definitely Leave Me.  And it’s Awesome. I could totally relate. I’m dating a man that knows he’s most likely going to have to move sometime in the next few months. He asked if I could come over and cuddle. He’d ...

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