Dating and Relationships

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How the Fear of Abandonment is Affecting Me Today

Editorial Note: Just writing this has made me feel so much better. Thank you for reading. I sometimes feel SO much better that I consider not posting. But I know the process is helpful to me and others. I just read an article about how to heal the fear of ...

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Relationship Styles… I’m such a hybrid of monogamy and non monogamy

I got to see one of my loverships today and it got me thinking on my drive back home about how I relationship.  I’m like my own special little mix of monogamy and nonmonogamy.  I have spent three years figuring out what feels like me.  I didn’t go into my ...

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A Few Days Solo in San Diego… my reflections

My partner took off to a regional burn called Wasteland in Southern California earlier this week.  I was still in San Diego for a few days.   I learned a bit while he was gone.  I learned that I think I liked being sad that he was gone.  It felt ...

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What’s on my Mind? Still Working on Co-Dependency

I cheated again… I made a video instead of writing.  Share on Tumblr

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What’s on my Mind? Co Dependency

I found video to be much easier than writing… so here you go.  Share on Tumblr

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“I love looking you in the eyes while I fuck you.”

“I love looking you in the eyes while I fuck you.” That’s the last thing he said in a string of “I love…” statements while he was grinding on top of me. We were in a rhythm. I had hit a point of saturation in sensation where I could hardly ...

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What’s on my Mind? Two Upgrades you can offer your Relationship

I had a 7am client this morning and we talked about what I think would have made my relationship with my ex husband better… I wasn’t in the mood to write, so I recorded instead. If you’d like more information about my work mentioned in this video, go to CuddleMichelle.com. ...

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What’s on my mind? Taking Risks in Relationships

I remember when I was married. Things would bother me and I would stuff them down, not to speak about the issue at hand. I couldn’t. There was zero space to share concerns in that relationship. I stuffed them down and then every 6 months I exploded and asked for ...

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What’s on my Mind? Wedding Hangovers

What’s on my mind this week?  Well, more than just the title of this post and the topic of the video below.   My partner P was in town this weekend for a wedding (and to see me of course).  We were still struggling this week with my feelings of ...

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What’s on my Mind? Feeling Invisable

I’ve been listening to a new-to-me podcast called Darken the Page with Dave Booda. He posted one last week about being a blogger and when I commented he sent me links to a few more episodes he thought I’d like. I immediately went and downloaded them to my phone so ...

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