Dating and Relationships

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What’s on my Mind? Two Upgrades you can offer your Relationship

I had a 7am client this morning and we talked about what I think would have made my relationship with my ex husband better… I wasn’t in the mood to write, so I recorded instead. If you’d like more information about my work mentioned in this video, go to CuddleMichelle.com. ...

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What’s on my mind? Taking Risks in Relationships

I remember when I was married. Things would bother me and I would stuff them down, not to speak about the issue at hand. I couldn’t. There was zero space to share concerns in that relationship. I stuffed them down and then every 6 months I exploded and asked for ...

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What’s on my Mind? Wedding Hangovers

What’s on my mind this week?  Well, more than just the title of this post and the topic of the video below.   My partner P was in town this weekend for a wedding (and to see me of course).  We were still struggling this week with my feelings of ...

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What’s on my Mind? Feeling Invisable

I’ve been listening to a new-to-me podcast called Darken the Page with Dave Booda. He posted one last week about being a blogger and when I commented he sent me links to a few more episodes he thought I’d like. I immediately went and downloaded them to my phone so ...

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Scarcity and Abundance Around Sex

I’m in a long distance, open relationship. That can mean a lot of things to a lot of people. My blog is probably due for an update anyways, as I’m always evolving and understanding myself, my needs and my desires better. How I would currently describe my relationship with P: ...

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Guest Post: How do you Stay Hard During Sex?

The following is a guest post from my boyfriend, P.  As a sex and relationship geek, I was so happy when he shared this with me and that he was a yes to letting me share it here on my blog.  So introducing P and his first direct contribution to ...

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Asking for What I Want – Michelle 3.1

Michelle 3.1… yeah, that’s a thing.  The latest update to my software:  Asking for What I Want. About a month ago I was on a training call for my work as a Cuddlist and we were discussing why sometimes our male clients think it acceptable to ask for sex when ...

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The Cost and Risk of a LDR

Long distance relationship… living apart together… whatever you want to call it… my love lives across the country.  I get to play house with him for a week to 10 days every 4-6 weeks and it’s lovely. Our love is like nothing I’ve ever experienced.  Our sexual connection is spot ...

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Coming to Terms with what Monogamy Isn’t

I’ve been saying for the more than 2 years since my divorce, and maybe more like 2 decades, “I’m not very good at monogamy.” I was married for 18 years. I cheated physically during a chunk of my mid 20s and I cheated emotionally continuously. Or at least that is ...

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Updated Personal Relationship Check-in

I like lists. I also like putting out to the universe what I want. So… I want to do a personal check in of what I’m wanting out of my primary relationship, not just pointing at the one I am in, because he may not meet all these points… but ...

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