Confidence

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What is a Cuddle Party?

I often have people who think Cuddle Party is kind of like a pajama party… it makes sense with a name like that.  But it’s really so much more.  Before I explain, let me tell you a little story of how I came to Cuddle Party and how it’s affected ...

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The Compliment I Can’t Take

I heard it multiple times last night, “You are an intelligent woman…” in various forms. I can hear that I’m pretty. I can hear that I’m open. I can hear that I’m fun. I can’t hear that I’m smart. My partner, P, and I were at a friend’s house last ...

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I Want to be Taken Care of — GASP!

“What?!  Michelle is this independent woman.  She swore she didn’t want to be taken care of!  Didn’t she?”  I’m assuming something similar is going through your head as you read the title of this post. I was married for 18 years, in that relationship for 21 years.  In that relationship ...

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Kink – One Year In

Announcement:  I’ve been in the kink/bdsm community for one whole year!  *cue the band*  I have learned so much about kink/bdsm but more importantly I learned so much about myself. I entered the community to learn what bdsm was (the sex geek in me) but also how to communicate better, ...

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I Have a Confession

I have a confession.  I feel jealousy. Some of my monogamous friends might balk at the thought of me dealing with jealousy because you probably think that us poly folk (or non-monogamous people) don’t get jealous.  But we do.  I just didn’t.  I thought I was one of the lucky ...

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I Don’t Want to Talk About the Weather…

I like talking on the phone.  I know most like texting better.  Not me.  When I get on the phone, it can be for hours.  But I don’t want to talk about the weather.  I want to learn something, either about you or about me, preferably we will both learn ...

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Pussy Confidence, Pussy Love

The following story is of a sensitive issue. To my personal friends and family: If you feel you will never be able to look at me the same by knowing intimate details of how I have felt about myself over the years, please stop reading now.  I never want to ...

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How to Conquer Rejection

I recently shared my story of my first rejection.  Here is where the story picks up… It had been a few weeks since my first rejection.  I got a lovely message from a very attractive gentleman on my usual dating site.  We spent the week having long conversations on the ...

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Rejection

About a month ago I met a handsome young man for a drink on a Wednesday afternoon. I don’t date 20 somethings but this gentleman I made an exception for. He was military and had a lot of life experience I couldn’t compete with. He was sexually open and our ...

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Fun with Ropes – How I Learn About Myself

**If you have watched my videos, here on this site, you know I have been exploring the world of BDSM since September.  You can also watch them here.** We were acquaintances.  She’s always been very welcoming to me.  We have met at many social events but have never really gotten ...

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