“Does it sing to you?” That was the question posed to my friend as we were shopping a garage sale and he asked about the history behind a knife he was holding.
The knife’s owner, a mutual friend and an energy healer, explained that you should never buy a knife that doesn’t sing to you. He decided the knife didn’t sing to him enough, so he placed it back down on the table.
That is a great analogy for dating. Does a potential mate “sing to you”? Now, in my world, they don’t have to “sing to me” to be a potential sexual partner. I can have casual sex without the “song”. There doesn’t have to be that energy, that pull, for all my mates. But man is it great (and a little scary) when they do “sing to me”. That “song” is an energetic and chemical attraction that goes beyond the physicality of sex.
So if you are on the slutty side, and I say that as a fellow slut, you probably don’t need your partner to “sing to you”. But if you are less slutty and you are looking for “the one”, hearing the song is key, meaning don’t buy the knife unless it sings to you.